The first step to changing a habit is to be aware that something you’re doing IS a habit that might not be serving you. Sometimes the most terrible thing about a habit is that there is lack of awareness that it’s even affecting your life in a way that you’d rather it didn’t. When you’re habits are running you, it can cause you to run on the same track of failure or substandard conditions in your life over and over and OVER.
We could think that a habit can’t really be all that bad, but as it says in scroll one of the Greatest Salesman in the World written by Og Mandino, “In truth, the only difference between those who have failed and those who have succeeded lies in the difference of their habits. Good habits are the key to all success. Bad habits are the unlocked door to failure.” It goes on to say that all men and women are slaves to their habits, and that our bad habits have already marked out a path which threatens to imprison our future. Then, “Therefore, if I must be a slave to habit, let me be a slave to good habits.” But how are we supposed to accomplish the feat of changing our habits? We need to choose a new habit to REPLACE the habit we want to release and let go of – one that we know will be key to our success, and practice it every day 3 times per day for 30 days (and beyond) until it is a habit and some subconscious reprogramming has taken place! To believe we can commit to something that ‘big’ we might need to accomplish it first in another way that isn’t directly related to our success. I suggest reading the book by OG Mandino and following exactly his instructions of reading. This will give you the confidence you need to allow yourself to become aware of habits that might not be serving you, and the confidence to select a habit to REPLACE with a new habit and do it. Let me tell you, it is so totally worth it! For encouragement, please feel free to subscribe to my blog on the right, so you can have the support you need to continue what you are inspired to think you want to do now. Take my hand and come on the journey…my hand is reaching out to yours…..
Hi Delaine – yours is the best thought-out blog that I have read to date. Unlike myself, you do not let yourself get carried away by emotion when writing your blog. You have previously taken the time out to plan your blog, prior to ‘executing’ your plan. Well done indeed !! I am learning something from you all, many things. I’m going back to re-write mine…..!! Version 2 !!
Dave
Thank you, Dave! My own personal growth has long been a priority, and in this blog I’m really wanting to give huge value to others so they can be empowered to have their own personal growth too. Life just gets better and better! I want EVERYONE the awesome life!
Habits ARE insidious things – when negative and detrimental, yet MARVELOUS when they cruise us forward on “autopilot” to the positives in our life. Great to be aware of them, huh?